So what is it about women who look so great and it doesn’t matter how much make-up they wear?  What is that special thing that makes them beautiful and attractive.

How they do it?

They have these five important traits, that give them sparkle in their eyes and in the eyes of their men, they are becoming their ‘destiny woman’.

So what kind of women men can’t resist?

1. They are Confident

There is no situation that would take them out of the comfort zone.  They come across as calm and content.  They always know what they are good at and what are their weaknesses and they ‘own them’ all with pride.  You feel comfortable, safe and cozy being in their company.  Everything they do is filling them with joy.

Take a piece of paper and write down all the things you value on yourself.  Have a look at your own self-esteem.  The sound of your internal voice.  What is it telling you most of the time about who and how you are?

2. They are Independent

It doesn’t mean they don’t need a partner.  Its just that they can also be alone and enjoy their own company.  They don’t need approval or validation from others to feel good in their own skin.  Their mood does not depend on what people say.  They don’t need continuous care and support from others.  They know exactly what is their place in this world.

3. They love Passionate and Risky Side of Life

These women are not hesitating from new life challenges.  They don’t mind if they have to temporarily give up their comfort.  They are open to spontaneous decisions like packing their bags at the spare of the moment and flying off to enjoy some free-ride skying in the spring sunshine, joining friend on the yacht in Norway or tracking 100km while searching her soul in Camino de Santiago.  They know every adventure teaches them something new and can move them forward in the way they process and understand life.

4. They Accepted and Love Their Body as It Is

Did you ever notice Cuban women?  They radiate happiness, joy, they seem strong, passionate, confident and proud about their beautiful curves – watching them, it would never cross your mind to think they are fat or imperfect in any way.  They are content and satisfied with their own self, celebrating their feminine in the most wonderful and visible way.  And it is that what makes them so irresistible to watch and be around!

5. They are Self Critical

On the other hand, they are aware of their weaknesses and they continuously work on themselves developing in areas of their life they feel that need attention.  They are also compassionate and gentle – aware that things take time.  While they are going through this process, they are still cheerful and lighthearted – even if something doesn’t pan out the way they planned, they don’t panic, they try again and due to their positive approach to life, they almost always succeed!