One of the biggest mistakes I see women on their journey to be a mums do, is obsessing around with Google and Internet chats. Desperate to seek the answers to find the answers to whatever physical obstruction is getting in the way of them conceiving a baby. Getting involved in the dangerous spiral of scarecity, fear and despere. I see it happening over and over again. “Is it one stripe or two stripes? Please, someone tell me you see that second one – somebody tell me its yes this time!!!”
It is very normal and important and I’ve been there and so understand that’s the first place to go with this all. Naturally.
What then though, what if it’s all still not happening even if you try different things, that has been suggested and baby is still not here…
Did you know 40% of infertile couples are ‘diagnosed’ with unexplained fertility? What do you do when you have no answers what so ever. Is it a good or bad thing? If you know ‘whats wrong’, at least you could do something about it, right?
I went through all these notions and there was a point where yes, I continue with the medical route, but deep inside I felt its not enough and if I really want this baby, there is something else that is required and that’s shift of my mindset – the way I look at things, the things I believe or not believe in, my sense of worthiness….and whole approach and my values in life.
What if you discover your new found sense of internal bliss even before the baby finds you? Perhaps our babies want to enter the world of a happy mum… But how can you do so when all you do is spending your time obsessing on google or you passed the ‘google’ stage, but not sure what to do next, so you are just left with this deep sadness waiting…and waiting again…essentially waiting for your life to be normal again – for your life to be able to start…
If any of this resonates and you are ready for something really new and refreshing, speak to me!
MAYBE ITS TIME for you to start SHINING again…
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